Being Kind to Others
Don’t be reluctant to show mercy When people sin, you should forgive and comfort them, so they won’t give up in despair. – 2 Corinthians 2:7
We all need mercy, because we all stumble & fall & require help getting back on track. We need to offer mercy to each other & be willing to receive it from each other. You can’t have friendship/fellowship without forgiveness because bitterness & resentment always destroys it. Sometimes we hurt each other intentionally or unintentionally, but either way, it takes massive amounts of mercy & grace to create & maintain relationships.
God says: You must make allowance for each other’s faults & forgive the person who offends you. The mercy God shows to us is the motivation for us to show mercy to others. Whenever you’re hurt by someone, you have a choice to make.
Many people are reluctant to show mercy because they don’t understand the difference between trust & forgiveness. Forgiveness is letting go of the past. Forgiveness must be immediate, whether or not a person asks for it. Trust has to do with future. Trust requires a track record & must be rebuilt over time. If someone hurts you repeatedly, you are commanded by God to forgive them instantly, but you are not expected to trust them immediately & you are not expected to continue allowing them to hurt you. The best place to restore trust is within the supportive context of a small group that offers both encouragement & accountability.